Progressing Not Perfecting
All The Fallen: Our Tribute to Those We've Loved & Lost
I've lost so many loved ones, and the pain never truly fades. You'd think we'd grow numb over time, but we don't. It's surprising to many that I'm one of the last standing, but I'm here, determined to make a difference. With All The Fallen, I want to ensure that these cherished individuals are never forgotten. Perhaps when people see the faces on this page and understand the positive impact they had, they'll truly start to listen and care.
They matter, and they matter a lot. I'm sorry for your loss. Please know that if you accept it, you have a community here who've suffered similar losses. Let this memorial remind you that you are worth so much more than your addiction has shown. Don't wait for tomorrow to be the person you could be today. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed. Make their lives count for more than the beauty they showed us while here. Let's make them proud.
— Sam
Even in grief.
Click a photo to view their obituary.
Every candle you light here stays lit, on this page, for you.
Melissa Gaboury
May 15th, 1991 – March 13th, 2021
“May you touch Dragonflies and stars, Dance with fairies, and talk to the moon.”
Jenny Webster
February 9th, 1990 – April 30th, 2019
“Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day… unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear.”
Jad Hoag
January 6th, 1978 – May 15th, 2021
“Wherever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories.” — Ronald Reagan
Sarah Flynn
June 26, 1987 – December 17, 2017
“Don’t cry because it’s over; smile because it happened.”
Megan Webbley
May 30th, 1988 – September 29, 2019
“Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in times of happiness.” — Euripides
Jennifer Weston
June 14th, 1985 – May 14th, 2022
“You meet people who forget you. You forget people you meet. But sometimes you meet those people you can’t forget. Those are your friends.” — Mark Twain
Kimberly Hill
March 29th, 1989 – August 15th, 2012
“Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.” — Ed Cunningham
Arabella Babcock
March 24th, 1992 – January 12th, 2021
“It is the death of a dear friend, indeed, that invariably brings us to realize how much we loved them.”
Jenny Brandmeyer
April 19th, 1990 – August 24th, 2021
“You cannot stop loving your friend because he’s dead, especially if he was better than anyone alive, you know?”
Ryan Weaver
May 30th, 1990 – June 27th, 2023
“If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” — Alfred Tennyson
Korey Klein
February 26th, 1980 – January 17th, 2003
“The bond between friends cannot be broken by chance; no interval of time or space can destroy it. Not even death itself can part true friends.” — John Cassian
Mitzie Burnor
July 18th, 1984 – April 15th, 2023
“The two hardest things to say in life are hello for the first time and goodbye for the last.” — Moira Rogers
Veronica “Pumpkin” Gilbeau
November 1st, 1973 – April 4th, 2010
“When friendship leaves us through death, we feel cheated in life. Life doesn’t play fair, so I vow to win the game for both of us.” — Amy Hoover
Wendy Kate Comar
October 10th, 1989 – November 26th, 2017
“Honoring a friend’s death means honoring their life. Bemoan what could have been but celebrate and reflect on what was.”
Jessie Germain-Carrier
December 5th, 1981 – March 3rd, 2023
“Don’t let yourself go, ’cause everybody cries and everybody hurts sometimes.” — R.E.M.
Jessei Lussier
August 3rd, 1977 – March 31st, 2005
“What if everything around you isn’t quite as it seems? What if all the world you think you know is an elaborate dream. Love you, Jessei!”
Sarah Spence
April 25th, 1975 – July 29th, 2013
“The stolen glances, broken threads. The visions looming in our heads. The years spent running parallel to everything that might’ve been.” — David Gray
Kristin Long
January 20th, 1981 – December 13, 2016
“I know that you’re gonna fly somewhere brighter on the other side.” — OPM
Corrina Carr
September 24, 1975 – January 18th, 2021
“Smile though your heart is aching. Smile even though it’s breaking.” — Nat King Cole
Carlene Densmore
July 15th, 1980 – January 16th, 2018
“Ain’t no sunshine when she’s gone. It’s not warm when she’s away. I miss laughing with you!”
Amanda “Giddy Up” Pratt-King
April 9th, 1982 – February 21, 2021
“If love alone could have kept you here, you would have lived forever.”
John Hoyt
December 9th, 1980 – November 6th, 2019
“We’re cryin’, and we’re hurtin’, and we’re not sure why… Miss you, man. It’s not the same without you.” — Jane Siberry
Lakeisha Shepard
March 21st, 1983 – January 15th, 2021
“May God bless and keep you always. May your wishes all come true. May you always do for others and let others do for you.” — Bob Dylan
Mary Graves
May 1, 1985 – December 14th, 2020
“When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. I have never laughed harder in my life than I did with you, Mary.”
Tina Graves
September 14th, 1981 – April 23, 2020
“Honoring a friend’s death means honoring their life. Be moan what could have been but celebrate and reflect on what was.”
Valerie Beale
December 31st, 1985 – March 8th, 2021
“So impressed with all you do, tried so hard to be like you. Flew too high and burnt the wing, lost my faith in everything.” — NIN
Christine Terry
December 18th, 1983 – April 4th, 2022
“A good friend can never truly be lost. Their energy lives on in the hearts and minds of those who loved them.” — Unknown
Jeanette Jangraw
December 16th, 1985 – July 17th, 2018
“When you lose something, you can’t replace. When you love someone, but it goes to waste. Could it be worse?” — Coldplay
Tia Williams
August 3rd, 1985 – June 21st, 2019
“A good friend can never truly be lost. Their energy lives on in the hearts and minds of those who loved them.” — Unknown
Crystal “Figgy” Figueroa
Passed On October 5th, 2014
“The comfort of having a friend may be taken away, but not that of having had one.” — Seneca
Grace Squires
July 6th, 1990 – October 20, 2018
“You meet people who forget you. You forget the people you meet. But sometimes you meet those people you can’t forget. Those are your friends.” — Mark Twain
Cheryl Barber
January 19th, 1986 – August 11th, 2020
“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.” — Nicholas Sparks
No one by that name yet — but you're welcome to add them below.
One submission per email. You are welcome to submit multiple submissions.
Submit Your Loved One(s) to the Memorial
Send their name, dates, a few lines or a quote, and a photo if you'd like. If I have their name and state, I can search the obituaries because I link them in the photos. I won't be able to publish more than a couple of sentences, if it's longer, I'll publish the first three. Light & love, friends.
Submission FormBy submitting the name and/or photo(s) of your loved one(s), you are giving consent to PNP to publish said photo and name. There are no federal laws preventing anyone from submitting information for their loved ones' memory. I am only clarifying because, technically, I am not a loved one if I don't know them personally. Your submission is your permission (to me) to publish. I won't be able to let you know when your submission goes live, so please check back in about a week.
If You're Struggling Right Now
You don't have to wait until things get worse. Reach out today — here's where.
SAMHSA National Helpline
Free, confidential, 24/7/365 treatment referral and information.
Mass Overdose Helpline
Someone stays on the line with you while you use, and calls for help if you go quiet.
massoverdosehelpline.org