What did you have to unlearn to start actually healing?

Nobody talks about this part enough. We talk about what we learned on the healing journey. The tools, the practices, the breakthroughs. But the unlearning? That was the harder work for me. Unlearning that I had to earn rest. Unlearning that my worth was tied to my productivity. Unlearning that asking for help was weakness. Unlearning the version of myself that other people needed me to be so they could stay comfortable. Some of what I was taught about life, about myself, about what I deserved — it had to go before anything real could grow. What about you? What belief, behavior, or story did you have to unlearn before the healing could actually start? Drop it here. Because someone reading this right now is still carrying something they were handed that was never theirs to hold.